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Day of The Dead

A. Sachs,
When I pass, speak freely of my shortcomings and my flaws. Learn from them, for I’ll have no ego to injure.
Aaron McGruder, Boondocks, 07-04-04

Third Person to light a candle for on the Day of the Dead.

“The anti-barbarian intellectual will be an artist…for only the poet, the painter and the musician know how to name evil and fish for its bloody pearls” ~ Bernard Levy, Barbarism with a Human Face.

I have had the privilege of working with some amazing individuals in my time. Believe it or not real rebels. I have chosen three individuals to light a candle for on the Day of The Dead.

The first candle to be lit is for my mom.  She was a creative individual that did not fit the normal mother mold. She was an excellent cook. She was very creative with her hands.  She nurtured her children’s wild and creative side. Her skill as a mother is what made her a good mother.

The second candle to be lit is for Darby Crash. He represents the real wild side of individuation. He is the building block for so many in the underground music scene today.

The last candle to be lit will be for Shane Williams, also known as the Rock & Roll bank robber. His expertise was as a music critic. Shane was a talented writer, He had the big ear for fucking Rock & Roll.

The letter included in this post was originally published in Flipside Fanzine number 36, known as the Vandals issue (cover picture by Ed Colver). This is the first letter Flipside received from Shane. It was the beginning of a beautiful friendship that lasted for over twenty years.

RIP Shane Williams.

Celebrating a Flipside reunion a few years back. Photo by Bob Cantu

Picture taken by Bob Cantu

An Image of Mother’s Passing…

If you cannot get rid of the family skeleton, you may as well make it dance. – G.B. Shaw

My brother called to tell me mom passed. There were few tears to shed.  A year before I shed my tears knowing that this day would come soon enough. Giving birth and waiting for death are so much alike in their ways. One waits and endures through the pain while caught in the eternity of this waiting. It passes. Human beings are born and then they  die.

The funeral director was called by phone to come and receive my mother’s body in death. They arrived quickly. A gurney was brought into the house. The man asked if my father and I would like to join my brother downstairs.

“Many family members find it hard to witness their loved-ones bodies being placed on a gurney.”

My father and I stayed. I watched as the mortician picked my mother up as a bride over the threshold. Her body hung down lifeless. A vivid image of Christ on the cross came to mind. Then she was placed on the purest white sheet I ever saw. Then they wrapped it round her. She was the center of a beautiful white Lilly. My father bent over and kissed her, I followed and he followed again. Then she was gone.